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writes:hi, I have met this girl and really like her and I want to take her out on a date but I just don't know how to ask her???? help Reply to this Question
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reader, thatgothgirl20  +, writes (15 March 2008):
 Hi. How are you doing? What have you been up to lately? How is school/work going? Are you very busy lately? If not, would you like to see a movie with me?(Btw, don't memorize this, but you get the gist of it.)If she says no, just say something to the effect of, "That's okay, I get busy sometimes too."Then let her make the next move. If she is interested, she might say something like, "Well how bout next Saturday? I'm not busy then." Or she might say something like "Errr, you want my email/phone number and we could possibly schedule a different time?"
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): I disagree with gottascrewloose ask her out in person. She may torn you down true, but its not the end of the world. Confidence is very appealing. Giving her a note is easier but truly lacking in confidence.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): I want to see that new movie __________ its playing this weekend... she responds somehow if it sounds encouraging at all go for it.. Do you want to go?
Or my brother told me that __________ restaurant is really good, I want to try it ... she responds somehow if she sounds encouraging at all go for it... Do you want to go sometime? This weekend? Saturday? If she is evasive tell her to let you know when she is free (saves face for both of you/end of conversation)
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reader, gottascrewlose86 +, writes (15 March 2008):
 Welllll as a girl myself I think I can help you out. When I am asked out for the first time, the guy always either sends me a message or gives me a note. I think sending your girl a message or giving her a note/card would work out great cause you dont have to worry about being nervous when you are asking her. You can carefully write your words down without freaking out too much.
A good place to take your girl for her first date is to the movies or dinner or both. Both of my first dates with different guys were at the movies. Whats great about the movies is that it is a good place to go despite what age you are. I was asked out at 14 to go to the movies with my first b/f and as well as this year as a sophmore in college with my second b/f. Good Luck=)
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