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30-35,
*browneyedgrl24
writes:I have been with my boyfriend for two years. I do love him. He's a good guy but I'm afraid that I may still love my ex boyfriend from three years ago. I thought I let go of him but everytime we talk or bump into each other we fall back in love. He begs me for a second chance and I'm scared because I don't want to hurt my boyfriend, he has done nothing wrong. I am confused. I'm stressed out please someone help me?
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (15 March 2008):
 Don't be like a dog that goes back to eat it's own vomit.
There is a reason why you vomited him out.
If you don't have a b/f , then you can reconsider.
You should eat fresh food and not vomit.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 March 2008): You are interested in your ex bf, and when young, unhappy, bored females, do this-they avoid the harsh reality of what and why they are doing this,thus the confusion. It blinds women emotionally and makes them weak. Start thinking here rationally, hun. I would say you are simply lusting bigtime..after the ex bf. You need to remember 'why' you and this ex bf broke up in the first place. It's plain to see you and your current bf may have hit a disillusioned, complacent, bored phase of your relationship and you are needing some excitement and romance. As a result, some women get wrapped up in the erotic illusion of taking the old ex bf out for a spin. Why don't you ignore these temptations and explore ways to 'find' that sexy, alluring and attractive man (your bf) right there in your own relationship. If you love your bf, do yourself and him, a favor and take the time to reassess your own relationship to find out why you are tempted, hun. Figure out why you want this other guy. I say this because, if you were in meaningful, deeply loving relationship--absolutely no one could tempt you to stray. Just think well before you heed to the mating call and make the a needless decision to leave your relationship, which could just need a good boost. Work on that, instead, If your relationship ends up being irretrievable, at least take the hard step of leaving your current partner and recovering before starting anything new.
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