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anonymous
writes: Well I met this boy online. He's 17 and I'm 14. When I talk to him I get butterflies. And he's told me constantly how beautiful I am and how he loves me. I love him so much too. But we always just flirt. He doesn't know that I reallllyyy do love him. And I have this feeling he reaally does love me. He told me he wont tell me his true feelings if I don't tell him mine. I want to so bad but how about if he doesn't feel the same back? Should I tell him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2007): i think you need to slow down! the internet can be a dangerous place and unless you have seen the boy in question in person you cant be sure who he really is. flirting is fun but i wouldnt take it further yet. if you decide to meet up with this lad take a group of mates or an adult with you otherwise you could end up hurt and broken hearted.
i hope this helps
gud look! xxx
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reader, ChiRaven  +, writes (27 March 2007):
 How long have you known him? Have you met in person yet?
Be VERY careful about revealing too much to people you meet on-line. There's on old cartoon (it had been around for at least a few years when you were born) of a couple of dogs talking and they said "on the internet, nobody knows we're really dogs".
Grown men and women get scammed, victimized, and even injured by placing too much trust in people they meet on-line. Young women your age are prime targets. Guard yourself and guard your heart. Flirting is fun. You may even have a long-distance romance eventually. But for now, KEEP it at a distance and don't let this person (whoever he is) get too close to you.
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reader, Reebe  +, writes (27 March 2007):
 No don't tell him anything personal about yourself. You have to be very careful about people you meet online no matter how much you talk and how honest he appears to be.
Some people online can try to make you do and feel things so they can take advantage of that in many different ways.
Be very careful and use your head if you have any doubts whats so ever, then don't do it!
Be safe.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2007): NO dont tell him you love him--you will scare him away fast. take time to have fun together and get to know each other better. Having a relationship online can be very deceptive---it is kinda like a fantasy and you can fall in love fast---be careful----get to know this guy better before revealing your feelings et.
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