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female
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41-50,
anonymous
writes:When i want to have an orgasm I need to rub my clitoris with my fingers or use a vibrator at the same time while having sex. My boyfriend says he has never experienced this before. What position can I try that will rub my clitoris without having to use a vibrator? Am I an odd ball???
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reader, rcn +, writes (27 October 2007):
 From my experience, if not too much four play, many women have difficulty having orgasm's just from having sex.
I know what you mean by stimulating. If I'm with a gal and know she's getting close, just needs that extra bit of assistance, I rub it for her during sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHello peoriaman, thanks for your answer and advice, I have only tried the bullet and I also have a dildo vibrator I love them both but I would like to try something different such as the ones you mentioned. Thanks!
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reader, LoveGemini  +, writes (26 October 2007):
You don't need to wear any attachments or anything like that. What you need is following:
* Great love and passion for a memorable sex
* A handbook of Kaam Sutra - guide to better sex and positions
Believe me, once you try even the basic positions illustrated in the Kaam Sutra, you will see that your partner is deeply satisfied. Try it now!
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reader, eddie  +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Most women don't have orgasms by straight intercourse. Stimulation is most often need to the clitoris. This is normal. If you're trying to buy in to what you see in movies or where ever, don't. If you think it's difficult for you, imagine how difficult it is for a guy to meet those requirements.
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reader, Checkup Man +, writes (26 October 2007):
 Your boyfriend could wear an attachment on his penis that would 'flip' to and fro against your clitoris and really get you turned on. That way, you get the best of both worlds. As a prelude to sex, why not try this bit of fun...stand with your back to your boyfriend, and then he (gently as possible) puts his arms around your waist till he can gently clasp his hands together. He should then repeat this several times, but with his arms getting lower each time! Start fully clothed and gradually strip off. I did this just once with a girl at work and she said "You've just given me an erection...you've made my clit stand on end!" Have fun!
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reader, YellooFish +, writes (26 October 2007):
You are not an oddball many female go through this!
If you want an organism think about something that turns you on such as males, female relationships, sex e.t.c...
If that doesnt do the trick just ask close friends what they do! its nothing to be ashamed about
Wishing you all the best
Yelloofish
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2007): Your no odd ball I just think your boyfriend has not yet discovered how to make you have an orgasm with intercourse, you only have clitoral orgasms which feel completely different. You need to find a position where his pelvic bone rubs your clitorus or he needs to be more experimental to find the right position for you to get orgasms without stimulating yourself. There are loads of sex advice sites too look at that may be useful ie www.sexadvice.org, here you will find advice on relationships, sex, positions and foreplay. Hope this helps
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