How can I save more money before I go to Australia?
Q. Hi, i'm hoping someone might be able to help me. I'm 18 years old, and i am taking a gap year next year before getting a job. I finish college june 2007 and i am going to australia for 6 months january 2008. At the moment, my aim is to save up ...
A. 28 October 2007: Are you any good at dancing? If so, how about doing belly dancing in a reputable restaraunt to entertain family or couples out dining? If that's not your scene, how about putting an advertisement in 'The Lady' magazine under Situations Wanted? Just ... (read in full...)
Want to persue career as adult nurse
Q. Want to be pursue career as adult nurse. Have nvq level 3 in operating department practice and certificate in operating department practice. Very poor gcse grades taken in 1989. Am single. Am I eligible for training and any financial help?...
A. 28 October 2007: As you live in the UK have you tried advertising in The Lady newspaper? It could open some doors for you, and the readership is made up of some very reputable people. Best of luck to you!... (read in full...)
I'm clueless about what career!
Q. Hi, I am extremly stuck on which career to choose. I am predicted all a's for my GCSE's but really have no clue as to what carrer i want! Need some HELP!!! ...
A. 28 October 2007: Have you a hobby that you'd like to turn into a career? That's quite often what many people do. I had no idea at your age what to do when I left school but without sounding boring...it will all work out for you I'm sure!... (read in full...)
Need a job that will make me think and motivate me?
Q. well right now I'm n a situation and i wanna get out of it.. well i really want 2 get my work and life and my financial status on point but it has been such a mission 2 keep it steady I've been from job 2 job working here 4 a few months n working ...
A. 28 October 2007: I wish I lived nearer to you so that I could see you on a daily basis as I think you need someone to spend a few minutes with you every day and give you encouragement, advice and reassurance. I know, because I've been in that situation! We could ... (read in full...)
How can we find our daughter?
Q. my daughter joined a cultic relationship. he made her change sch stop contact with family and friends and moved her away. now she seems to have left him but we have no idea where she is. we think its a cult farm, any ideas of how we can find out ...
A. 26 October 2007: Have you tried the internet web sites? You could try a search under the various cults. I'll take a look around myself and see what I can find! Scientology is one I can think of. Are you in Australia?... (read in full...)
Do I continue with or end this relationship?
Q. i m in love with a guy and we have sexual relation also. now i wanna marry with him but he is not ready to talk with his parents. now plz tell me either i continu this relationship or end this relationship....
A. 26 October 2007: Talk with his parents about what, for goodness sake? He is, I imagine, old enough to decide for himself about his future wife? He should be able to know by now if he wants you or not! His parents cannot decide for him. I've heard of this situation ... (read in full...)
I want to be more than friends but he is hung up on a girl thats not interested, how can I make him see?
Q. ok ... well the thing is i am starting to like this new guy i met, we are really good friends by now, but the problem is he is really into this girl who doesnt like him. Believe me, she already told him. I want him to forget her and see that he ...
A. 26 October 2007: Teenage years can be tough in some ways, and being in love with someone who doesn't like you is as tough as it comes. It can cause stress, loss of appetite, sleeplessness, etc., and with no end result to show for it! I would only get really ... (read in full...)
Puberty issues! Help!
Q. I'm 16 right now, and I think I haven't gone through puberty yet. At least, not all the way. I have pubic hair, but my penis doesn't seem to have grown at all. My girlfriend wants to be physically intimate with me, but I have confidence issues a...
A. 26 October 2007: Instead of rushing into sex why don't you settle for an in between situation where you play a few games without 'going all the way' and having full intercourse? A few party games where your friends could come around with their girlfriends could be ... (read in full...)
I want to orgasm without having to do the work myself, advice on positions please?
Q. When i want to have an orgasm I need to rub my clitoris with my fingers or use a vibrator at the same time while having sex. My boyfriend says he has never experienced this before. What position can I try that will rub my clitoris without having to ...
A. 26 October 2007: Your boyfriend could wear an attachment on his penis that would 'flip' to and fro against your clitoris and really get you turned on. That way, you get the best of both worlds. As a prelude to sex, why not try this bit of fun...stand with your back ... (read in full...)
Most people think I'm wild but in bed, I'm not! Should I tell him I'm inexperienced, sex wise? How?
Q. (This is more like a novel than a question, it's really long, sorry) I have a bit of a complex situation, it's a bit silly and I'm probably worrying about nothing so please don't laugh.I've been on a couple of dates with a great guy, but we've been ...
A. 25 October 2007: I think that everything should really start with LOVE! If this guy loves you and cares about you he will be only too willing to listen to you, with whatever is on your mind. I think I'd be rather keen to tell him that I want to talk to him one ... (read in full...)
Her unfounded suspicions are destrying our relationship
Q. i'm in a lesbian relationship, we have been together for two years. She does not trust me at all. Shes so disrectful to me. Always calling me vulgar names. Everyday I'm accused of cheating, with the neighbors, people walking down the street, ...
A. 24 October 2007: I think you need to take a break away from her for a few months, give her space and time to think about herself and YOU! She's going to make you feel ill if you are not careful, with depression or whatever. I think the most important aspect of any ... (read in full...)
Three is a crowd
Q. Since i have been little me and my 2 best friends have always been a group of 3, we were always inseparable and everything we did would be together. i guess 3 is a tricky number butwe always got over it and no one got left out, if they did it never...
A. 24 October 2007: I think most of us go through a little phase around that age when we feel attracted towards our own sex, but nothing too serious. I know I did. The fact that they've left you out in the cold could give you the opportunity to branch out and do new ... (read in full...)
Don't say give it time
Q. Hey im almost 16 i was with a guy who was 17 for almost 7 months. Due to reasons that were partly my fault he broke up with me about 3/4 weeks ago. It was a bit of a messy break up and we both said some nasty things. I've apologised and even tri...
A. 24 October 2007: Why don't you treat yourself to an evening out with friends, have an evening meal, then go to a dance. At the very least you'll have a change of scene and at best a new guy may step into your life and give it a whole new outlook! All the best!... (read in full...)
Is there a way to increase the length of my penis?
Q. hi, i was just wondering iif there are any ways to inccrease the length of your penis....
A. 23 October 2007: The best way to achieve penis enlargement is through natural blood flow. By this I mean avoid anything such as enlargement devices, or tablets that claim to do just that. At your age just let nature take it's course. If you're lucky enough to have a ... (read in full...)
I was told to 'go back to africa' by my boyfriend - am I over reacting by breaking it off?
Q. Till recently i was in an interracial relationship (black and white). My boyfriend and I got into a political discussion and he told me to go back to Africa and I broke it off. Some of my friends say it was just a slip of the tongue and it's no big ...
A. 22 October 2007: The whole idea of a relationship is to be loved and wanted by the other person. To tell their partner to "Go back to Africa" is unacceptable and offensive and you were right to ditch this racist. Do you want to return to this person for more racial ... (read in full...)
I insisted I was sorry and he accused me of harassment. Was it?
Q. please help, i've been unhappily married for the last several years, just recently ive met someone ive fell for, nothing has happened yet but fot the past five months we had been sending each other very pesonal text messages, just recently i ...
A. 22 October 2007: This guy sounds very immature to me. He seems too afraid to take things further with you and now he's not even BIG enough to accept a sincere apology. Why not join a few women's clubs where you could go on outings, dances together and hopefuly meet ... (read in full...)
I can't get a proper erection - what can I do about it?
Q. im 19 nd av sexually inexperienced. im with i girl who i love and we have spent an age exporing each other. but when its comes to sex i can get it up but not quite hard enough for full penetrative sex. help/advice...
A. 21 October 2007: Have you tried various lap sitting techniques where your girlfriend sits on your lap in various erotic ways? Also, she could sit on your lap and 'rock' herself to and fro. This stimulates the blood flow into the penis, whilst at the same time, ... (read in full...)
How do I get over these self esteem issues?
Q. I don't really know where else to go with my little problem so I am coming here and mostly I just want to know what you guys would do in my situation. I've been with this man for 3.5 years, after about a four month courtship. Our relation...
A. 21 October 2007: Firstly, are you afraid of him at all? If so, you could be using up a lot of nervous energy trying not to show your fear of him. He could be the type of guy who likes to dominate a woman completely and perhaps he isn't achieving his desired level of ... (read in full...)
How do I make our sex HOT again?
Q. So...I have been in a relationship with a man I love very much for just about two years. Yesterday morning in bed he told me that he has not been happy with our sex. We use to have AMAZING sex, bragworthy for both of us. He told me that he still ...
A. 21 October 2007: I recorded a video on an adult late night channel which featured this problem. It suggested a number of remedies including trying to restart the relationship as it was at the beginning, with love making in the countryside, (more for summertime that ... (read in full...)
I love her, she likes me, but we don't want to hurt anyone.
Q. i'm in love with my mates girl and she likes me to but we dont want to screw things up, wat should i do?...
A. 20 October 2007: Just be yourself. Don't say anything 'suggestive' regarding going out together, etc., talk to her as though she were just a good friend, and treat her as such. Then, IF she should say to you "I've split with my boyfriend", you could suggest going ... (read in full...)
I'm 7 months pregnant and I feel unloved, used and worthless!
Q. Im now 7 months pregnant, my boyfriend has become more distant as the pregnancy has progressed. I have tried absoloutely everything to 'fix things' from being as attentive as possible to accepting all the crap he puts me through (arranging to meet ...
A. 20 October 2007: I think you should forget this selfish lump for the time being and think about YOU! I feel so strongly about your welfare that I would even be prepared to be with you during childbirth and give you the support, strength and LOVE that you need right ... (read in full...)
Am I misreading the signals??
Q. Hi! There's a boy who I really like at school and sometimes I think he likes me back but I'm worried in case I'm misreading the signals. When we're in class I can feel him looking over at me but when I turn around his heads buried in his textbook....
A. 20 October 2007: It could be shyness or perhaps a fear of rejection if he asked you to go out with him. It's a difficult age for boys (and girls) and perhaps he's just not sure if he is 'acceptable' to the opposite sex at this stage. All the best to you. Hope it all ... (read in full...)
Is my penis a normal size for a 13 year old?
Q. err hi i was wondering if this is normal im 13 and my penis is 5.4 inches long i mean i think thats good but is it ok to be so big so young?...
A. 20 October 2007: I spent a lot of time worrying as a teenager when I was about your age, regarding penis and testicle development. Don't worry about it at all. In a few years time you'll no doubt have a relationship with a nice girl and all will be fine, I assure ... (read in full...)
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