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writes:i am very much in love with a girl and i would really like to marry her one day. but for now, we are just "friends" if you could call it that. its a very one-sided friendship with me making the effort to keep it going and her not really caring. if i do try to live my own life and, for example, not text her or talk to her, she gets mad at me. what should i do? i want to stay friends with her, but i dont want to be in pain all the time...
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reader, LottieCole  +, writes (10 June 2010):
 Dear Anon,
my question to you is why would you want to be friends with someone who barely passes as a friend let alone consider the idea of marriage? As this is not a relationship i can not advise in this context but she appears to be a selfish friend at the very least. You need to focus on letting go of 'friendships' that only hurt you as this will allow you to find a girl who truly wants to be with you and have a relationship. Relationships are based on give and take and both parties are together as one making each other happy.
I hope you find the strength to move on and be happy.
Wishing you well
Lottie x
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