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writes:I really like this guy, I sit next to him in a few of my lessons.He'll like smile at me, and occasionally talk to me. On Msn and stuff like that he'll call me babe, and rated me 7 out of 10. However, he's more friends with the much more popular people in my school, who are all really beautiful, and his mates would tease the hell out of him if he did any thing with me. I know, that he shouldn't care.. but he's a guy and is only 14! What should i do to improve my chances with him?
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reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (1 November 2006):
 Sweetie, if anyone is dumb enough to not go for someone they like because their idiot friends would make fun of them... they are not worth your time anyway. My best friend in high school was quite chubby and although I see nothing wrong with it high schoolers can be dumb and although she is absolutely gorgeous she never got a date because she went for all the so-called popular guys in high school... Where are they now? Flipping burgers or working a crappy retail job with no future. Who cares what these dorkwads think... Confidence is key... They believe whatever anyone tells them... if you act and think you are beautiful they will follow suit. It sounds stupid but its that easy. I'm sure your just as pretty as those girls, but with a much better personality...so use it!
Good luck hun!
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reader, Lorraine31 +, writes (1 November 2006):
 hi,
You are just as special as these beautiful people you talk about. I had a friend in school, who wasn't particularly beautifu but boy did she pull the guys!! she had a great personality and thats whats counts. of course he is under peer pressure but arrange to see him without his friends knowing so that you can have fun together and not be harrassed or under any pressure. if all else fails then he wasn't worth it in the first place. Just remember you are just as good as these popular people you refer to. All the best.
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