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writes: Hi,I've met this incredible man, he's sweet, caring, loving and is unlike any other man i have ever seen.We have been meeting whenever he is close because his work means he has to travel alot, and although the time spent together is very brief we make the most of it.He is in a band and he is working his way up to get famous. I completely understand that its very hard for him, as im in a completely different country to him but when he comes over here we make it special.He had to get an early night so he went back to the hotel, and i took his band mate out for a drink or two. We had a great time but he got loose lips, explaining to me why he doesnt seem that close to me.He has some problems, his mum is never around, she was a drug addict and his dad is in prison. I had no idea about this and i feel for him so much. I havent told him i know these things, as he is shy and remains very closed about his personal life.We do stay in contact when he is away, by phone or email, but i want him to know that im always here for him, that i want a relationship with him, but i dont want to be in his way, of his career and life.Is it wise to tell him that i know these things, or shall i just keep quiet? Also how do i tell him that i want to be with him but not in the way im stopping his life?Any advice is greatly needed!Thanks!xo
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reader, Lostandalone  +, writes (12 September 2006):
 You are very welcome.
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reader, Dark_Storm11 +, writes (12 September 2006):
Dark_Storm11 is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thank you "Lostandalone"
Reading back it does sound really simple!!
Oh problems, they are so annoying, but thatnk you for your advice, i will be trying that when i talk to him next, thank you ever so much
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reader, Lostandalone +, writes (12 September 2006):
Talk to him. Its that simple. I wouldn't bring up his past but I would try to coax it out of him. You need to let him know where you stand on this whole issue. If you don't it come accross as just friendship and thats were it will remain. He has legitimate problems in his life and maybe afraid to open in because of lack of trust, because the closest people to him weren't there so he doesn't know how to. Be his rock but let him know how you feel and make him comfortable enough to be open with you and I think he will sense your sincerity and open up. Good Luck.
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