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I want to help my friend but I'm not sure what to do

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Question - (22 January 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 22 January 2012)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi,um well i am about to be 17 this girl that i don't really know what to do anymore because its like im trying to help her get away from her past to get into the good with society like she wants to not get into how before when she was dateing way to many guys and like dated one every week than after she got hurt she came to me every single time and now she came to me for the very last time and she said im sorry for what happen and she changed because she got saved in this church thing but now she got her facebook back and she hasnt really messaged or anything like that not everyday we do this buts its been like two days i might get a text on tomorrow sunday because thats when i always usually get them from her but its like i dont really know what to do because she is 2 years younger than me and she thinks she is changeing but i sometimes want to try and believe her but my heart and gut are two completely different options that one wants to and the other does not , i really need help i do like her but i dont want to hurt her feelings the last time i did i think i broke her heart because i am much more mature than her i set her of straight i did not talk to her or anything for a while and she begging back for me but i just dont want her to feel the same way she did before i want her to know that im always here for her , what i can do?

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A male reader, Kyle007 United States +, writes (22 January 2012):

You have established a relationship of her always going to you for help.

Free yourself of this, you are obviously not comfortable with it.

You said she got saved in Church. Let God take care of her, and let her be helped my more objective people who are not so emotionally involved with her that they are hanging on the possibility of getting a text.

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