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I want to help him, yet I feel so left out of his thoughts sometimes..what do I do?

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Question - (13 December 2011) 0 Answers - (Newest, )
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

last year before we started dating my boyfriend went on a trip that really changed him for the better. And he made a lot of friends he will never want to lose. along with memories he won't forget.

Now he always thinks about it. sometimes to the point of depression. Also once his parents wouldn't allow him to go to his reunion which tore him apart. The way he deals with problems is by not talking about them.

Sometimes that really bothers me because i feel like i want to help him. but without understanding i cant help him. At the same time if it doesnt have to do with me its not really my buisness. the reason im typing here is this; sometimes when hes sad about the trip or talks about the trip it gives a sad feeling. like hed rather be with them then me. and that just doesnt feel good at all. i understand this trip meant a lot to him. but i feel so left out of his thoughts sometimes..what do i do?

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