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*eisha4knight
writes:So recently me and my ex boyfriend started talking as friends...and i let it slip that i would like to have sex with him again no strings attached and he agreed to do it, but i found out that he had a girlfriend and he didn't tell me...should i ask him about her? Should i still go thru with having sex with him? Or should i not do it at all? Any help or opinions on the situation would help me make a decision i haven't done anything with him yet except talk... Thanks in advance
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reader, Neisha4knight +, writes (18 May 2010):
Neisha4knight is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks everyone...I was still unsure about the situation but after all your answers I don't think I will do it...
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 May 2010): The guy is obviously involved with someone else. Most likely his girlfriend wouldn't appreciate him being intimate with another woman. If you're really just looking for sex you should consider hiring a prostitute and if you don't want to pay for it then a bar on a Saturday night before closing time will satisfy your need.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (17 May 2010):
You're walking into a trap. He wants to have his cake and eat it, and when he's had enough, he'll just throw you out. He has a girlfriend and was willing to cheat and lie to you. You can't trust him, and if you do anything with him, you become as low as he is for trying this in the first place. Keep your respect and dignity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 May 2010): If you go ahead with the NSA thing his girlfriend may very well get upset and consider him to be cheating.
If you want to be involved in that or not is up to you. I wouldn't recommend it though.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (17 May 2010):
 Technically,since you asked him for just sex,no strings attached, you should not be concerned about his dating status, if he s single or not. The very fact the you have a problem with that makes me think that maybe you wanted to have sex with him as a way to ease back into his life and get back together. If it's like this,- I would advise to give up your NSA plan. It would just bring you heartbreak,eventually.
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