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writes:im sixteen and i have some concerns about having sex. This is going to sound very stupid but im really worried about my breasts. I was making out with a guy and he went under my bra and i kept pushing him out because one of my breasts has a sort of alergic reaction and i didnt want him to feel it. Does anyone know how to get rid of this FAST?! Its like a little pimple with and ingrown hair. And just recently my other breast has one to. Now this is the part thats going to sound stupid. Im worried to be naked in front of a guy during sex because my nipples arent perky and hard like the girls in the porn films or anything. They can get that way if there played with but then they'll get soft and look unnatural. How do i keep them looking good? And how can i get rid of those things on them? Any advice would be great, thanks!
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reader, love-him  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 hi babe, its just an ingrown hair.. nothin 2 b seriously worried about.. just allow time for it to go away on its own.. moost peoples nipples dont stay hard.. like me.. it takes a bit longer than normal to get my nipples hard but they dont stay hard on there own.. dont worry about it n if a guy realy likes you he wont care anyway.. hope i helped, mail me if u wanna talk x x
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): I don't know much about the ingrown hair thing, I am sorry, but why not speak to your GP and see if their is an easy solution?I don't think that most woman walk around with erect nipples all the time. Mine are normally soft and only becomes erect when I am cold, turned on, or if my nipples are stimulated. I think is totally normal and mostly the case.Never compare yourself to porn stars, that is not reality. Besides, your guy probably doesn't look like a pornstar either? If he likes you, he will be very excited about the priviledge to be able to touch you, no matter what!
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reader, penta +, writes (27 August 2007):
 Wait a couple of weeks (at least) until the ingrown hair has resolved. Don't worry about your breasts -- everyone's is different. (And NONE of us have the breasts of porn stars.) For most men, as long as you have them, they'll be happy. [grin]
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2007): I was very shy about my breasts, too- but eventually I got over it. My boyfriend put it best: "Women's bodies are all beautiful" he said. He has always accepted me for what I am - lumps and bumps and all. My paranoia was that I was sure that my breasts weren't the shape and size they should be. Remember- more than a mouthful is a waste!! I came to realize that my breasts look perfectly fine.And guys love messing with nipples to make them stand up. It's a given thing. ;)
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (27 August 2007):
 I think the little pimple is simply a hair that got entangled. Some men have this problem in their beards, so this is absolutely natural. I've never had that problem myself, so I'm sorry I can't help you with how to remove them.
As to your nipples, you have no reason to worry. And, let me warn you that the girls on porn films don't really look that way; the movies and the pictures are "retouched" so they look that way. We all feel a bit inadequate when we're your age, but, don't compare yourself to something that doesn't even exist. Be happy with the way you are.
Believe it or not, I understand that the porn industry has people in charge of making nipples look that way. Through stimulation, you guessed it. So, porn stars' nipples don't necessarily look like that, either.
You don't wanna enter the "beauty" rat race. Click on this link if you want to convince yourself with your own eyes:
http://www.campaignforrealbeauty.ca/film_fullscreen_evo.html
At your age, you haven't fully blossomed yet. Wait. The best is still to come.
Finally, if your nipples do respond to stimulation, the way you want them to, do you really have a reason to worry?
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