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writes: I had a great job and I started liking a coworker ...a lot. My relationship was almost destoryed because of my behavior. I quit my job, not really because I wanted to, but because it would help get my relationship back in order and relieve my BF of some stress.My old job is rehiring and I really want to go back to work there (coworker isn't there any more), but I know my BF would hate it and be bothered by old thoughts. Should I even think about reapplying?
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2007): Do what's best for you. If he loves you he should be able to get over those old feelings, but you must be willing to listen to his complaints along the way. You have to be happy too and part of that is securing a career/job that you want. Good luck
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reader, eddie  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 What exactly happened with the old guy? If he's not there, I don't see the harm.
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reader, goodbutnotgifted  +, writes (15 January 2007):
 Who do you love? sounds like when the day is out its just you. Why not break up with your bf and get the job, then try dating the guy you like? I have been in relationships where the girl was into someone else but wouldnt tell me. Would have saved alot of heartache. Your young by the sounds of it, I hope you make the right choice.
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reader, Lilly223 +, writes (15 January 2007):
 I would say that you should talk to your bf about this. Explain to him that the old guy isn't there any more, they are hiring again, and that you would like to reapply. See what he thinks. But, if he doesn't feel comfortabe, don't do it. I think your bf would appreciate you running this by him first and asking him fo his opinion, and respecting it if he doesn't like the idea. I don't think it could hurt to ask.
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