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writes: I've been with my partner for almost 7 years, im 25 and he is 35. Ive got to apoint where i want to get married but my partner will not ask or discuss it, what should i do. Reply to this Question
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reader, willywombat  +, writes (6 March 2006):
 Sit him down and ask him for HIS opinion and exactly were he sees this relationship going. If he is happy to let the relationship bimble along without a goal and this is no good for you then you have a serious decision on your hands.
Above all find out his views, do not let him continue to avoid the subject.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (15 February 2006):
 Try one last time to get him to discuss it. If he says he doesn't want marriage anytime in the near or distant future then you'll have to decide whether you want to stay in the relationship. If marriage is important to you (and let me tell you that there's nothing as wonderful with the right person) then I think you should chalk up the past seven years as a learning experience. Some people don't see any reason for marriage and say it's just a piece of paper but it truly is so much more. Don't settle for less than your dream. Good Luck!
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