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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:my husband and i havebeen toghether for 13yrs and we have a 5yr old son together.We have always had a happy marriage until a few years ago my father died and i became very depressed.My husband started to become distant,then started lying to me about things. started of with smoking at work and lying to me about it,then he didnt want to have sex with me anymore,kept saying he wasnt in the mood or tired or badback but on many occasions i caught him masturbating!! when i questioned him bout it he got violent.Now he lies to me bout everything,it seems to be an obsession.i am having councelling for my issues and starting to feel better,my husband says he does love me but at the same time we hardly have sex and he is still distant,he talks to me like dirt and doesnt have a very good relationship with our son.i dont want to end our marriage but what can i do to make him interested in me again and want to get close enough to make love?
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reader, dchard  +, writes (15 May 2007):
Theres alot of things that could be a factor.Its hard to pin point them all maybe you stop careing for your self and how you look, Gained weight, still griveing and its turning him off,ask yourself did you smother him away if not ignor him and concentrate on you and your son see if that helps take a trip to victoria buy his favorite color gET SEXY EVERYDAY.These are some of the things I do and my man loves it.
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