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I want to fight!

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Question - (28 March 2010) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 April 2010)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ills writes:

my name is Gillian i am 16 and i have a problem i cant solve, i am a normal girl into normal things except i love to fight, its all i dream about and think about all day, i just want it so much it is a massive thing for me. I especially want to fight a woman much older than me, i dont know why i want this so much but i do. Please dont laugh or ignore me, this is driving me mad as i cant find anyone to get to blows with and i am worried i will get into real trouble trying.

There is a older woman lives in our street who is always getting hassle from others and i often join in as well especially after the rest have gone hoping that if im on my own she will will take me on ,so far she has only told my parents and now threatens to tell the police of i dont leave her alone, i dont want to get arrested and have challenged her so many times that of she wants me to stop she has to make me hoping she will .I dont even want to hit her back i just know if know if she goes for me i will be satisfied and wont bother her so much.

I really dont know what to do, should i start to bother someone else and hope they react? should i just tell her what i want or maybe ask sa women online to do this, im sure im not gay i have loads of bfs and fancy them but this is something else that i just need so much.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2010):

Male respondent here. If I were her age, I'd like nothing better than to wrestle her, or fight for fun. It's too bad there aren't more girls who think like her. I agree, though, that a street fight with an unwilling opponent is not the way to go about satisfying her desires.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2010):

girl combat sports i do it .full conatct if you are up.join a club

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A female reader, Not My Name Australia +, writes (28 March 2010):

Not My Name agony auntIt seems you have an agressive streak that may be curbed by taking an anger management class.

Otherwise, join a contact sport - like boxing - that will give you an outlet with willing participants. Going around getting in to fights tho will only get you in trouble with the law and eventually a criminal record for assault that will follow you in to more mature years (when you will wish it hadn't), and effect your employment opportunities, ability to travel internationally, etc, etc. None of which is worth a punch on!

BTW - You may fancy guys, ..but personally I don't know any guys who fancy women who behave that way.

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A male reader, jc2008 United Kingdom +, writes (28 March 2010):

A girl wrestler, great!

Seriously though you need to find yourself some activity that makes you less likely to do somthing stupid. Getting in to fights on the street isn't going to do you any favours. Have you ever thought of taking up a contact sport or somthing that will let you vent your agressive thoughts?

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