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I want to break things off with him before he breaks my heart

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Question - (14 May 2018) 4 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2018)
A female Brunei Darussalam age 30-35, *INAT writes:

I have a feeling that my boyfriend is having second thoughts about us and I want to break off the relationship before he can break my heart. We were just chatting on WhatsApp on Saturday and I guess everything was OK. The following day when I check on him on Sunday I was blocked on whatsApp. When I called her did not pick-up. On Monday he send good morning text as if nothing happened. I never asked him anothing but told him that I want to talk to him face to face and agree to meet me month end. Currently, I can't shake my anger and I think I can't wait for month end. I want to end things with him. How do I break up professionally with this guy?

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom + , writes (24 May 2018):

N91 agony auntAvoid like the plague.

I’d tell him things are over and you’re not playing childish games. Block him then move on.

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A female reader, Katie26 United States +, writes (24 May 2018):

That is super weird! Tbh, he isn't worth the effort if he randomly blocks you and thinks he doesn't owe you an explanation. But you shouldn't ignore him in return or break up with him because you want an upper hand over him or get him to chase you. If you genuinely decide not to pursue this anymore, you should call him and let him know that you don't want this anymore. If you think the relationship was meaningful then you should call him and ask him why he blocked you. Give him the chance to explain before you make a decision.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (23 May 2018):

Be honest with him! Honestly, it sounds like he isn't worth your time or effort. I would ask him about the situation where you were blocked. Was it an accident? If he wanted space, why not just communicate that? Tell him you're maybe looking for something a little more mature, and if he's willing to do that, give it some consideration. But do not let it consume you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2018):

Tell him you are too old to play games like being blocked for no reason and you need to find someone more compatible.

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