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I want to be reborn again and save my life. Do I have to leave my boyfriend then?

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Question - (18 February 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 18 February 2013)
A female South Africa age 30-35, *kemzi writes:

okay Help please!! hi everyone, i am a girl and i am 21. I wan't to change my life i wan't to be born again so what are the do's and dont's. i am in a relationship with a guy i love. so do i leave him after being saved or what????

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2013):

Ask your spiritual guide, seriously, you're a christian? ask your reverend, shepherd, or whatever but without being preachy I am going to tell you what are the answers you'll probably get:

i am in a relationship with a guy i love. so do i leave him after being saved or what????

1. are you having sexual intercourse, then if you're a christian when you're born again your sins are forgiven but you can't keep "living in sin"

IF he's not a christian either there's the whole " Do not be yoked together with unbelievers." I am not telling you that you have to break up, I am not telling you that you should do this or that, but christianism is pretty straightforward about sex outside marriage (check out the explanation in 1 corinthians chapter 6) and the thing about religion is that it does not adapt to you, but the other way around.

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A female reader, R1 United Kingdom +, writes (18 February 2013):

R1 agony auntI have no idea. But why do you want to be born again? Are you unhappy in your current life?

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A female reader, janniepeg Canada +, writes (18 February 2013):

janniepeg agony auntGod is love, God is everywhere and in everyone, right? Your bodies are made in the image of God so there is no possibility you will be sinning as long as you are not hurting anyone. Whoever told you marry a deity and leave the world behind is deluded. If your boyfriend is corrupted, abuses in substances or you, then of course you leave him. Don't think that because you are involved with a relationship with a mortal being means that you won't be saved. Who says you can't devote your life to God together with your boyfriend? Only a cult will separate you from loved ones.

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