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writes:This guy and i have been doing our thing for over a year now. We've dated basically 3 times and even during 3 break-ups we still did couple like things! I totally love him and he says he totally loves me but thing is i've fallen for someone else and i havn't told him. We're constantly together basically being a couple but i just don't know what is going on between us anymore...i really want to be able to gather myself and walk away but i can't Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI seriously think that trouble just seems to want to be my best friend!! My ''it's complicated's'' friend likes me...i think i might have also given him the impression that i'm interested by meeting up with him at even kissing(more than once)!! If ''it's complicated'' finds out our friendship and whatever is going between us will totally be over which is what i don't want!! I don't like his friend but i don't know how to tell the friend because he hasn't officially told me anything...
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 June 2012): You don't say whether you are actually seeing the other one yet. If not, finish it first with this one and simplify your life.
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reader, missmatador  +, writes (12 June 2012):
 Dear Anon,The worst part of being the one to walk away is accepting that you put the nail in the coffin...but, remember, you weren't the only one to do the killing.Relationships come to an end and it important to put them to rest properly. Both you and the gentleman you have been with for three years have had a part in the relationship coming to an end and it is perfectly normal to feel reluctant and upset about that.You need to weigh up your happiness with the other guy you're seeing and the discontent in your stagnant relationship. It will, no doubt, be making you miserable to be keeping those feelings of guilt alive. It will be hard. But you must clear the way for your own happiness.Good luck,Pippaxxx
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 June 2012):
 Well you have to chose one of them, you cannot string them both along because it is just unfair to the both of them. So time to be strong and put there feelings before your own and decide which one you want to be with.
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