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writes:I'm 14 and i have sex a lot. Is this a bad thing?I really like it but sometimes i wish i wouldve lost my virginity when i was older.Now i just want to do it, now that im not scared and i know how good it is.I have an amazing boyfriend that i want to be with forever, he says he wants to be with me forever too. I have sex with him, and if i want to be with him forever and im only going to have sex with him is that okay?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 November 2009): Sweetie, i'm glad you said you wished you didnt lose your virginity yet, but yes its normal to feel for sex all the time, your hormones are raging, but at the same time you are still growing as a person and as a woman, trust me right now it feels like you want to be with each other forever. thats what you say and he does too.i'm not so sure about him, but right now it will seem that it will last forever, but im gonna be blunt dont put your head on a block, as i said earlier you are still developing there are things you dont even know about yourself and in time things can start to change with you, and with this guy, both of you may want to experience new things and so on. you may even grow apart, i dont know how old this guy is but guys think differently than girls, no guy your age, or if he is older than you wants to spend the rest of their lives with a girl from 14 years old, if he is older he could just want sex from you as you are young and fresh. if he is your age he is not gonna want to be with one girl forever, just yet. You might want to be with him forever he might just say that to please your mind, you mentioned not being scared anymore, but trust me their are alot more things to still be scared about, like getting pregnant at this age or getting an STD, so i suggest, you slow down on the sex department, get to know this guy, get to know you, focus more on you, hang out, enjoy each others company without sex, see what this guy is all about, respect yourself and your body, make sure that whatever guy you are with respects you, your wishes and decisions. Good luck!
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