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anonymous
writes:i had a good friend and he meant a lot to me, i lied to him a couple of times and he went bollistic :/. we argued for 7 months all because i couldnt let go, i just wanted my friend back, to prove myself to him i could be a better friend. but he kept saying no and calling me pathetic and stuff. we stopped talking in june and recently he sent me an inbox message on facebook saying that some of the things he said were harsh and he was sorry, he also said he ddnt fully forgive me but he said he doesnt feel bad anymore now hes said the message. i answered him and we got talking, i said that did you want me to move on and give up but he said it isnt an option now. he doesnt want to be friends but he said neither of us can move on. what can i do instead of moving on ? please help i really want my friend back, he just doesnt trust me anymore because of what i did :/
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reader, heartbroken101  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 i know where your coming from.
i think you should tell him that you don't expect him to trust you straight away but you want to be friends again and slowly overtime you will build his trust back. it was take patience and alot of time but if your true to your word and you are really sorry you lied and you WON'T do it again...then i suggest telling him that. but make sure you don't lie again and you keep to your word...that will show him your serious and that you can keep a promise. it will take time. but tell him that you dont expect him to trust you straight away and it will take time but because his friendship means alot to you then you are willing to take the time to build up his trust again. just don't break it...otherwise it won't be so easy next time...and it wont be easy now...goodluck!
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