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36-40,
*aby-it's-you
writes:He broke up with me. I posted a question earlier: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/i-need-advice-guys-i-dont-know-what.htmlBut now he broke up. And I really want him back. He doesn't feel mature enough for a relation. He wants his freedom back. He feels like he didn't have enough space in our 2nd relation. Because I tried too hard to make it work. While the 1st time he worked harder for our relation. But he says he still loves me. And if we were 5 years older (would make us 28) that he could have a relation with me. In fact he says I'm the right person for him but he is just not ready for a relation.He still wants to see me and kiss me. But he doesn't want a relation. And he wants me to keep loving him although he knows he can't ask that. Do you think I can get him back? And make it work? What should I do and what not to do? Thanks again.
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reader, Kenj  +, writes (16 August 2010):
 The best way to win him back is to keep as friends, it may not turn out as you want right now but give it time.
If he isnt ready now it doesnt mean to say he wont be ready in a few years or so.
Everyone is different and develops at different speeds.
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