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writes:OK so I want my ex back! Yes I have thought about it long and hard. We broke up in December and since then we have talked a bit, not to often though, sometimes we have fought over the past, sometimes just talk about how she is doing, she is seeing someone else at the moment although they are not officially "going out". Any ideas for getting her back? What would of been our two year anniversary is coming up and was thinking of just writing a short email with a nice love quote or something. Ladies is this a romantic idea or annoying? Suggestions? By the way I would not ask this if I didn't think I have a shot, I have dealt with girls who I knew wanted NOTHING to do with me anymore, I don't get that feeling with her.
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reader, Shanny96  +, writes (19 April 2009):
 You were in love for a reason, the only thing that changed that was either you or her changing. My only advice to you, is if it was you who changed.., think long and hard.. why did she fall in love with you? and what was it you did to make her love you the way she did?
Be honest and explain to her that you still have them feelings for her and if it were you who caused the break-up, make sure you tell her that you sincerely regret this and wish for a better future. MAKE SURE... you tell her this face to face, not over email or phone ( no way). Meet up for lunch as friends and be very genuine and lovely.. she fell for you for a reason!
This other male she is seeing, well she was seeing you before and again it was for the reason you two were meant to be and she liked you a lot. Make her feel special and that way again.
I really hope this works out for you, always remember though... there are plenty more fish in the sea. I hope to be a big help.
Please rate me and if anymore help is needed.. do not hesitate to private mail be.. i am always here x
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (19 April 2009):
We can't really advise you since you don't tell us the biggest issue that you will face - Why you broke up in the first place.
If you can fix that problem, gain or give forgiveness and do something to make her realise that she does love you and does want to be with you then you're sorted!
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, Original shiraz! +, writes (19 April 2009):
Well your right about one thing, the feeling! You know when you know (if you get that). Past is past everyone has a history you know your situation better than us all so if you think its the right time and the right person then you have my support! Careful though, even if shes not official shes still with somebody but im sure your aware of the risky game your letting yourself in for, just make sure shes feelin 100% too.
Its sweet that you remembered its been two years im sure shed appreciate you even remebering! maybe a short email is best this time round? until things sort themselves.
Again be careful how you go about it, exs are exs for a reason and sometimes it just doesnt work the second time around, dont let yourself get hurt by falling too deep.
You know her, you know your past but your heart and emotions can take over your whole out look, remeber that,
Otherwise best of luck :)
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