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I am 24, from the west coast of the US. I consider myself to be that laid back straight shooting really nice a**hole...hahaha..

I like giving advice. think im good at it. a fair and honest view.

Why do people want and desire to marry?

Q.   This is not the rant of a commitment-phobic partner, it's a real and serious question. I plan on getting married. I want to and when I really think about it, I honestly have no genuine idea why. None. We've created this institution call...

A.   26 August 2009: it's more of a type of instant gratification. a reassurance that, THAT one person is yours and only yours. Also it makes you feel desired. Knowing that some one actually desires you enough to marry you. Knowing That someone actually wants to put up ... (read in full...)

Am I being "hoeish?

Q.   0k.. I just started high school and i want an boyfriend but its too many Boys trying to talk to me at once. I am currently talking to 3 boys and i wanted to know if i am being "HOEISH" because i dont know who i want?...

A.   26 August 2009: it's only "hoeish" if you are "sleeping" with all these guys at the same time. If your just talking with them,and figuring out which one is best for you, then there is absolutely nothing wrong with that. GOOD LUCK. remember to never settle for less ... (read in full...)

Married but in touch with the ex

Q.   Alright so,I am married... and i've been chatting, texting and talking on the phone with my ex boyfriend. i haven't seen him in 10 years. When we talk he makes me feel so special, he said he never forgot about me and that he has feeling towards me ...

A.   26 August 2009: i agree with q1605.... remember the reasons why this guy is your EX and the reasons why your man now is your HUSBAND. No one said marriage was gonna be easy,you take the bad with the good, figure out why he is being cold. don't just give up cause so... (read in full...)

Guy likes girl, best friend says don't get involved with her! What reasons could there be?

Q.   if a guy liked a girl but then his best friend told him that he shouldn't go for her, what reasons could there be behind this if the friend was dating and the girl wasn't that pretty but had a nice personality? ...

A.   25 August 2009: your best friend probably likes her too. Ask your best friend why he thinks you shouldnt.... (read in full...)

She made a joke but it's left me feeling really hurt. I really need advice.

Q.   Hey guys I need help here.. I mean I been with my gf for like a month and a half I know it's not a long time but I been friends with her for a year. Anyway u know me and her play alot and joke around alot. But there's one specific joke I didn't like ...

A.   25 August 2009: it was a joke man that's it. you need to learn how to trust her if you want your relationship to work. yes, you may get your heart broke by trusting her, i wont lie, there is always a real possibility of that happening, but that's the sacrifice you ... (read in full...)

My girlfriend wants to break uo with me. How can I stop her?

Q.   My girlfriend of 7 months wants to break-up, because I love her, but she doesn't love me. She says she, "wants to stop hurting me". What can I do!?...

A.   25 August 2009: how old are you 16-17? man, you gotta a lot of life to live. throw up the peace sign and don't look back.... (read in full...)

She doesn't believe a word I say

Q.   ok... I have a question im so in love with this one girl and me and her have dated before and our relationship went downhill simply cuz she lost trust in me and now she claims she doesnt like me anymore but there have been signs to show that she ...

A.   25 August 2009: Once a woman has made up her mind about something, it's almost near impossible to change it back. I mean go ahead and give it a go, try the romantic stuff. If it means that much to you, you better give it one last go,right? I don't know a man who ... (read in full...)

I want him to know I'm inviting him over sex. How should I say it?

Q.   If you ask a man you have started dating over to your house for dinner , will he think that's a euphamism for come on over and we'll have sex? I'm kind of hoping it will because I've been on two dates with a guy but they were just coffee/ movie an...

A.   25 August 2009: Him Being a man Im sure that thought is more then likely sitting very anxiously in the back of his mind. I think you should say nothing and when he gets over, get to work. Everyone loves a surprise.... (read in full...)

I can't think of why my friend is acting differently toward me. Can anyone help?

Q.   Ok so I have this friend that I like a lot. We've been friends for a couple years but I never wanted to ask her out because of our friendship. In the past couple months we've been talking a lot more. Over the summer I asked her if she wanted to go ...

A.   25 August 2009: can you give some examples on what is said that makes you think that she is being short with you? ... (read in full...)

Is it selfish to go off to uni when you're in a serious relationship?

Q.   I've been going out with my boyfriend for 18 months now. I'm 18 and he's 22, every things great. we love each other so much and i am so happy with him. Anyway the problem is, he's a plumber/electrician and still lives with his parent. Whereas i have ...

A.   25 August 2009: It's not selfish at all...if you guys are real serious about this relationship, you should bring up the possibility of maybe killing two birds with one stone. Im not sure how the pay is where you're from, but here, plumbers/electricians make good ... (read in full...)

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