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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I finished with my boyfriend but now I want him back. The reason we finished is because he was always hurting me in some way and everytime I would forgive him and take him back. It felt like he thought he could get away with anything and I would always take him back. this time I wanted him to know it was finnaly over and I am serious but I can't help missing him and wanting to be back with him. Can someone please help me I don't know what to do . Its just that I love him so much and I cant think about being with anyone but him . Reply to this Question
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reader, mum2be +, writes (19 March 2007):
You need to let this guy know for sure that he can't treat women this way, otherwise he will always try to be domineering. Stick to your guns... i know it may be hard, but you will thank yourself for it in the long run as you wont get hurt by him again!!
all the best
xxx
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female
reader, elsie +, writes (19 March 2007):
 its not your heart talking it your low self esteem.ive done this in relationships a couple of times so i know where youre coming from.you get used to being put down.it almost becomes normal.the great thing here though is YOU finished it.deep down you have got some respect for yourself.work on that basis.if your ex wants you back tell him hes got say 6months to prove hes changed but dont get too involved.if he unwilling then he hasnt got the backbone or patience to win you back.dont be his short term fix.when you are out of a relationship you tend to cloud over the bad treatment with the nice(probably few)good memories.go back to the desperation hes put you through and think of that.anyway good luck you can do it.
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