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writes:Hi,I came on here a few months ago, because my girlfreind dumped me after her dad got into a tragic accident and was left very badly hurt and needing help 24/7. It has been 4.5 months since the split, and we have recently been meeting up again. We have met up 3 times and on each occasion we have ended with a passionate kiss. She initaiated it twice! My question is, when we meet up things are so natural and the connection is there, but when we leave we dont really text much, can go for a day with out a word. She rarely contacts me first, but sometimes does, and i feel a bit like its a game and we avoid eachother, which i dont understand? Also, I know we have only met up 3 times but is it strange that we havent slept together? because we are ex's and had that relationship before? I am hoping i am just reading too much into everything because i want her back so bad, but if anyone has any ideas on this it would be nice to hear. As i said we broke up through the stress and worry and grieving of her dad, none of us ever did anything wrong, and we had a really strong relationship before, we also have another "date" on wednesday to the cinema..
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 July 2013): No it is not strange that you haven't slept together, When people experience something traumatic in their life, its natural for them to pull away. I remember my sisters bf of 4 years, his father died, and soon afterward they begin to argue more and eventually broke up.
Its important not to rush back into things, but to be sensitive about the issue and take it slow. She's reaching out to you and that's good, give it time.
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