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writes:i just wanted to write I'm 20 with a 21month old girl and I've been talking to my partner for awhile that we want another one and i really want to have another baby but i suffer extreme anxiety and my pregnancy with my daughter wasn't the best i vomited all the time just got off anti depression pills and what not and like i feel hopeless that this fear is so overwhelming that i will just stay with 1 child I'm not sure if its fear that makes me think twice cause when i think of another i get excited then the whole anxiety kicks in and i also have the iud and hearing what happen to Cassie Cassandra Alston-Williams with the falling pregnant 2 soon scares me and also me having implant the selfish part of me think if it will fuck up my implants =[just wanted to vent to see what you mummies thinki think the hardest part of it all i think i wont cope with 2 kids Reply to this Question
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reader, WonderBite +, writes (6 October 2012):
WonderBite is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks and he wants one and isn't worried he said he supports me either way and me personally wanted one sooner just for the age gap for my kids
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (5 October 2012):
 What does your partner feel about it? Does he feel the same as you do? The anxiety is probably down to you worrying about pregnancy and sickness and also wondering if you can cope with two children, it is normal to worry but if you are having bad attacks then you should go and talk to your doctor.
Next you need to think about it realistically. Are you and your partner financially stable for another child? Also you are still very young and you have a lot of time ahead of you for more children, so really you don't need to rush in to this. Talk to your doctors about your worries over the IUD and your implants.
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reader, WonderBite +, writes (5 October 2012):
WonderBite is verified as being by the original poster of the questionHe is the father of my daughter we live on our own and are engaged
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (5 October 2012):
 I just read your submittal of about 200 words.... and note that it does NOT contain the words, "Father", "husband," "married," or "family"....
I don't think you're really giving us much to go on, in order to give you our sage advice.....
Good luck....
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