I want a proper relationship, not just to be the friend all the time.

A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I have a problem that prevents me from a relationship. I never had a problem with relationships thru highs chool and such, thru each relationship I have learned a great deal. There are still some I wish never ended or I did something different. I have learned to be who I am today. now I have become the guy who girls can go to with anything and someone who will go out of his way for her. I have learned to be the perfect FRIEND. I can't be anything else it seems. I have plenty of female friends yet I've been single for little over three years now. I have lost many of my friends and I don't know why or what it is but I really want an actual relationship with a woman, someone I can share with and hold. I am still young but I have lived and experienced a lot more than pretty much everyone my age. How do I stop the way I am?

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A male reader, Denizen  +, writes (12 June 2009):

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