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writes:my man has just gone back to germany hes in the army..iraq next month.wondering , he said he'll have msn and yeah it will be hecticbut how often will he be able 2 contact mei know alot of u are related or with sum1 in the army so it'd helpi emailed him yday and i know i have to wait but just wondering thanks
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyeah see i was okay with thatjust he would not say it or say nothing.. today he hadnt blocked me so unblocked him and i saidif you just wanted to chat and what ever then 'd be cool thats what the whole quesiton thing was about yesteday but it was a time where you should jsut tell me. it wasn't about my undying love towards you.still nothing so..give up move on ill keep him on my listnot going to talk to him and going out with the girlssounds childish but it's fun.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (4 February 2009):
Sounds like he just wants some one to chat to and flirt with.
If you want more than that then you may have to look elsewhere.
To be fair if he is going to Afghan then he may not want a relationship to worry about as well as being shot at and mortared all the time. Most guys would want to be single when going there simply because he may come back in a box or several smaller ones.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWe spoke yesterday, he said his internet had a bad connection etc. i was understandingbut i asked him his feelings because to be honest no point in waiting for some one if you mean nothing to them.he didn't reply, when asked are you k, no reply, when i sent him a flirty message, reply!i thought i'm going to find out today if this is some thing more or a good bye, had enough to be honest. so i said to him at 10 in germeny time i'l be online and if you talk then we can caht etc...if not bye been nice talking to you and i always keep true to my word about being here for you but it depends if u want me there..he was online all day, i came on no reply i asked well what you think..he wouldn't talk to me at all. i wasn't even worth a bye to him . lovely isn't it. i'd ask why not talking to me, i wouldn't mind if didn't have any feelings could tlel me. but the ignoring part peed me off. especially as he is such a sweet talking so an so.well the end with that story, was a lot of tears with me last night, i said to him i'll block and delte you because otherwise ill tlak no reply. as soon as i block him he goes offline - he didn't block me back i checked.i tried making him feel guilty which is bad but to be honest i was angry, i had made this valentines email for him next week.prepared it all nice and sweet saying how he;s the only bloke ever wanted and never going to fight again *ironic) and i added was going to send this, enjoy the email last time going to talk to you and hope you find some one who cares in the future.he didn't even say bye to me that's what hurts the most none of the rest, i said it to him. why not say kk bye or anything?;(
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 February 2009):
If he's far forward then he may not get to speak to you very much. If he's at the back then he'll probably still get his 30 mins a week.
Just write him lots of blueys.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionsorry i got it wrong when writinhes goin 2 afghan next month..is it worse there than iraqand he does the bombsmakes ships etcthanksxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): i'm in iraq right now and i talk to my girlfriend any time im not on patrols, and i'm on a patrol base in the middle of baghdad.all the fobs have big phone/internet centers so it's a matter of not being too lazy to walk there. he'll be staying on one of those because theyre cloing all the patrol bases. also nothings going on here anymore so you dont have too much to worry about.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (1 February 2009):
The COB in Basra has brilliant facilities. He'll get 30 mins phone time every week but he can buy more phone cards. He'll have internet access when ever he gets time to get to the computers.
They are pulling out and you don't say what his job is but they will be very busy loading stuff up and shipping it home.
The good news is that the mortaring has pretty much stopped completely so it will just be a bit of a jolly in the sun for him. The food is gorgeous now, tell him I advise him to try the cake!
Thank your lucky stars he's not off to Afghan, although depending on his regiment, he may well end up there next year.
Don't sit by the phone. Just let him get on with it and try and keep yourself busy.
Good Luck!! xx
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