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writes:my best friend and i have known each other for about 3 years now, and we were really close and we'd talk about everything. recently i told him that i had feelings for him, even though i knew that he was already seeing someone else. he took it fine and we we're still friends. but the only problem is that his girlfriend (even though she doesn't know i fancy him) has told him she doesn't like my talking to him and so he's begun to talk to me less. i don't exactly know what my question is. but i'm wondering whether i should talk to him about how i'm hurt by all this or if i should just let it slide and see how things go?
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 February 2008): I think you should just let things slide because he has a girlfriend now and you should respect that. Furthermore, his girlfriend is very intuitive and could sense more than a friendship between you two and asked him to stop. And out of respect for her he did. So just stay out of their lives for now because as long as you have feelings for him it is unfair for you to try to come between them. Furthermore, it doesn't sound like he wants to let that happen as he has chosen her side over yours. So just let them be.
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reader, mousey17  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 well hun all i can say is what she dont no cant hurt her!
just explaine to her tht u two r just friends but also explain to him tht u have feelings for him, but dnt no wht to do bout it as his other half alredy isnt happy with him seeing you even though she doesnt no u fancy him if this works or doesnt message me xx
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reader, 2confused137  +, writes (7 February 2008):
 well i dont think you should let it slide because if you have feelings for him then just keep trying.She doesnt want you to see him obviously cuz she feels so competion.so go for it. Keep trying to go for it..Trust me it should go well at the end..just wait...i know i have to
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