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female
age
30-35,
*leaseLoveMe_x
writes:Hi Right my friend likes this lad, and me and the lad are good friends and he was talking to me the other day and he went im Sick of her always starin at me so i went Who me ????? and he sed no bhaveena, (shes the girl whos likes him) so i sed, ohhh and i know she realli likes him only he doesnt like her iv asked him and he sed he doesnt so i sed why shes realli pretty and a nice girl and he sed yeh she might be pretti to other people just not in my eyes, and now i have noticed when ever she does anythin with her hair she is watching him to see if hes lookin or if she looks in the mirror shell use the mirror to look at him, she says she loves him but i kinda dont think this is possible as she doesnt talk to him much. she just realli likes him, only he is gettin annoyed that she keeps starin at him, and he is startin not to like her even as a friend, so i told her what he said I dont no if i did the right thing?? i didnt no how to tell her so i just came straight out with it, i know it hurt her but i dont want him to hate her so she needed to know didnt she? so please can someone help me because i dont no if i did the right thing by telling her and i dont no how to help or try and fix this situation :( its so difficult cos i have love problems of my own which i posted so anyhelp possible will be good Thankyou x Reply to this Question
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reader, confused718  +, writes (8 May 2007):
 I say that it was a good idea. I would want to know if the guy i like didn't like me. she just might be a little sad for now. just give her support and make sure she's ok. if she likes him that much, then atleast now they can start being friends. Just compiment her and make sure she knows there are other guys, even though she doesn't get him.
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reader, geqo  +, writes (6 May 2007):
 I think you did the right thing. You were friends with the guy, and he told you (as a friend) that he wasn't interested in her. If she had gone after him, she would have only been hurt more, so stopping her at this stage was a wise move. I just hope you tried to break it to her gently, as this isn't an easy thing to hear.
P.S. Don't mean to be nasty, but please try write a bit more coherently next time! Took me a while to understand what you were saying! :)
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