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26-29,
*hedimestorepoet
writes:Hi I posted a question earlier in the week about this guy who ive been seeing for a few weeks who met my parents for the first time on sunday. Anyway just to recap he wasnt in a hurry to leave and seemed to get on well with them and told me when he left see you soon and he'd missed me. Any way the problem is hasnt spoken to me since and hasnt replied to the text I sent him. I have been worrying about it as it all seemed to be going really well but as it was the first time he met my family im worried this has spoiled it even though it was his idea. Anyway we work together to and we are on shift together tomorriw but I dont know what to do ! I dont wanna come across to clingy or anything like that but I dont want to just ignore him. Im stressing too that he will just act like I dont exist whicg has happened before and I cant see any reason as he seemed really happy and into me.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (1 March 2013):
 I don't think he got scared of your family or of your little sister ( as per your previous question ).
I think there may be a difference in mutual expectations.
Meaning, you have just been " seeing " him for a few weeks, and he has already ignored you and could shouldered before, for then showing attention again.
I think you see him more in a boyfriendish situation than he feels in. I don't doubt that he likes you, but in a more casual, I see you when I see you kind of way. Probably you think that introducing him to your famiy should have sign a momentous evenience and the start of a more serious phase, but maybe he just sees it.. as casually hanging out at your place, rather than, say, at the mall or the movies.
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