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*dwtampa
writes:this is so weird! i'm in a long distance relationship...but that's not what this question is about. when i visited my boyfriend last, we finally took the plunge and had sex. we gave our virginity to each other,so sweet right? but my question is this: when boyfriend sucks my nipples,it always feels so weird that i want to push his head away and scratch my breasts and nipples!! it drives me,and him nuts...i always thought i would enjoy having my breasts played with and sucked on...yet my body seems to disgree with it! is it just something i need to let myself get used to,or what???
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 October 2011): he just doesnt know what hes doing. imho it sounds like hes being a lil too rough (mine tend to itch when my fiance gets a lil rough.. or worse, hurt) or it could be the skin is just sensitive and maybe giving it lots of tlc beforehand would help? lots of lotions and etc? keep that area well moisturized and maybe have him try only playing with his fingers for awhile... until youre ready for him to practice more. because that is what this is for you guys right now. you are learning each others bodies.
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reader, Trinklett  +, writes (1 October 2011):
 Perhaps he's not doing it correctly. If done right its definitely a turn on. Some guys use their teeth, which is just horrid; for some, the sucking is too intense which isn't it as well. It should be a gentle caress with the tongue along side occasional sucks.
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reader, edwtampa +, writes (1 October 2011):
edwtampa is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni'm sorry to hear things didn't work out for you for a while basschick! but the thing is,sexually wise everything else is great! i couldn't get enough of him. it just seems my only hang ups with him is having him touch my breasts...and french kissing.i can't do french kissing,eheh. but it's not the fact he isn't a good sexual partner...so i don't think it's us not having the right sexual chemistry
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reader, Basschick  +, writes (1 October 2011):
 That's a tough one...and I'm a firm believer that our sexuality is deeply rooted to our sexual chemistry. When I was your age I got married to the man I thought was the perfect husband for me. But like you, I hated having him touch my boobs. It was a total turn off. Sometime later, that feeling moved to other parts of my body and I found myself avoiding sex or just happy it was usually fair quick. What's up with that? I thought I was completely in love with him. The problem wasn't the love. It was the sexual chemistry. I didn't see him as a sexual being and somehow my body tattled on me long before my brain figured it out. My self discovery led me to discover that not only did I love sex, but having my breasts fondled is a total turn on for me. I just happened to pick a guy who was a good husband material, but bad for my sexual taste. Who knew? Maybe my discovery will hit home for you. It took me years to figure out that love and sexual chemistry do not always go hand in hand. Go figure.
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