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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Basically my boyfriend met up with his ex for without telling me. I was already insecure before this, so obviously this added to the insecurities. We are still dating and I have fogiven him, but I really cannot forget at the moment. It has been about 9 months since this happened and I still freak out [without telling him] about every girl he talks to. He knows I am insecure about other girls however. And says he totally understands and that he blames himself, not me. But I checked his phone once and there was a text to a girl and it just joked about my insecuirty, saying if he hung out with her I'd think they were sleeping together. I thought this insecurity problem was respected by him, and now it seems a public joke. I really don't know what to think or do. I haven;t confronted him about the text.
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (17 August 2010):
 Uhhh I would defintely be mad..A woman's insecurities are no laughing matter plus we dont just confess them to just anyone. Plus him meeting up with his ex would make me question him..Did he tell u about that, or did u find out? U cant control who ur bf hangs out with and he's going to have lady friends its natural. U'll just have to bite ur tongue a lil, I know its hard. As far as the text goes, I wouldnt say anything bc u dont wont to admit to snooping. However if its really bugging u that bad, I would bring it up that u came across that text and are rather offended that he thinks ur insecurity is funny.
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