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writes:I have a guy friend who I think is mad with me! How would I know! I can't ask him because he won't talk to me. He likes me so much but it kills me that he won't talk to me online or text. I will not see him at all this summer and thats the only way that I can talk to him. I really like him and he flirts with me. How could I tell him that I hate him not talking to me and I want to be friends? Would it make me seem desperate. He has no girlfriend and I was the closest friend he had but hes being mean and he goes from mean to sweet.
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reader, trivia  +, writes (27 June 2009):
I think he's being a challenge, waiting for something from you. To your psych majors, he isn't gonna reveal his feelings before you do. You either tell him how you feel, or you leave it as it is in which case he'll become more mean, because of his frustration. He feels exactly how you feel, "will I come across as too desperate if I tell her how i feel?" If you want this guy, tell him before it's too late.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2009): You are friends with a guy who you feel is mad at you and you don't know why? Plus he goes from mean to sweet. Yikes! Why are you pining away for a moody, high maintenance fellow, who has an immaturity issue and I have to ask...why do you even want to involve yourself with someone who makes you feel bad about yourself? Grab your self-respect here and hang onto it. People like him, can drag you down a lot in life and cause you undue worry and angst. No one is worth that! So buck up here, girl, handle yourself with some dignity. Ignore him and get out there in life, make some new friends and always, always surround yourself with caring people who love and respect you.You deserve the best, don't you?
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