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writes: I absolutely like a boy who works in the gym but I suspect he could be gay despite he loves flirting and eye contact with me any tips to know?love
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2008): Ok Ive been dating this guy for quite awhile and I took his virginity. The sex is amazing but one thing is weird is that I want more of the sex then he does. And the thing is he masturbates when im not around him for a day or two but when I am he doesnt want to have sex?? I thought it was weird because what kind of a man would even say no to sex when he finally lost his virginity? So please help and tell me if he is gay or not!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2006): Not quite. Some gay men are flamboyent, but I've met many straight flamboyent men too. Some gay men talk with a lisp - then again...
Nevermind.
You can ask him out in a group setting and you can test him that way. You can even joke to see whether he finds so and so guy attractive, of course, don't make it publically known. The thing to look out for is his reaction and his answer.
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reader, Ponungalungb  +, writes (14 October 2006):
 I got a tip for you:
Ask him if he likes Barry Manilow, Bette Midler, Break Back Mountain, and Bath Houses. If he says "yes" to all of the above, he's certifiable. LOL.
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reader, Mizz Bloom +, writes (13 October 2006):
I know it's hard, but ask him. He could be embarrassed about it too. From what you wrote, he could be confused about his sexuality. I don't know why you think he's gay, but the flirting and eye contact indicates that he is drown to women.
Tell him that you like him, and see how it goes. He might like you back, or he might apologize to you. But ask him, atleast you won't regret it in the future.
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