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writes:Im still a virgin, but when i do have sex i want to be good if that makes any sense. can anyone give me some advic on how to wow him?
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reader, Abacadaba +, writes (14 October 2006):
 you cant really 'wow' anyone first time you have sex with them because you dont know what they like and stuff, especially if your a virgin, when a girl loses thier virginity the sex should be about them rather than the guy, because the guy needs to ease into it etc etc. Once your comfortable having sex with the guy THEN you can start finding out things he likes, and getting to know how to do stuff to 'press his buttons'. Baiscly i wouldnt worry about 'wowing' him just yet, get comfortable first, then you can pick out the things he likes and do them more oftern etc. Good luck, and play safe
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reader, pica +, writes (14 October 2006):
I wouldn't worry about wowing him, sex isn't a test - if it feels like one then you are doing it for all the wrong reasons. Take it slow, enjoy petting without intercourse for a while so you are relaxed with each other. Then full sex will be more of a logical continuation. I can't think of a worse way to lose your virginity than 'here it comes now'. Contraception is a must too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 October 2006): First set the mood get all yours and your partners faverate songs on.
Soalful R&B tunes go down well candals also Condoms(not only keep you and your lover safe safe but make sure it slides in ok) get good ones that are easy to use get your partner to buy Lubricant as well as it can feel uncomfertuble the first time, so dont rush into it or put too much pressure on it to be perfect it wont be hun it never is Ive heard loads of storys my first time my man couldent get it in me at all I was so nevous, oh yes if you want to make it good tighten your pelvic mussels when hes inside you that can feel nice so my man says! and have fun!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 October 2006): Hey, I understand what you mean. If you want it to be good, then do it with someone you really love, and that person has to love you too. There has to be an undertanding and good communication between you. If there is constant arguements, it might cause problems.
Good luck
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