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writes:Help aunts! Ok so my sis is in a FWB with this guy. Hes telling her he loves her and that they should become a couple. She sayin she likes him and that she cares.Now the problem is, about 1 month and a half ago my sis FWB guy text me. Hes saying he likes me and wants to be with me and how funny i am. At first he didn't tell me who he was, but when he finally did i told my sister and i threaten him with the police! Dang loser! My sister was so upset and i was upset too and i was in the middle but i showed her the text messages of course. He told my sis he was playing with me. She took him back. Now this morning when i woke up i had a text from an unknown number. This person is texting me very nasty things. Their saying they want to give me oral for hours and how they want to be with me and that their obsessed with me all day long! This person is using that app called Heywire. That app allows you to text, send pics with another number for free. So i cant trace the number! Now I text back after so many text asking who is this? They didnt wouldn't tell me because i would get upset and be mean to them ( duh lol ) but they said their name starts with an M ( so does my sis FWB guy ) so i was thinking maybe im over reacting. So i stop texting, this person is still texting me saying they wanna take care of me and that they wanna give me oral. Now their texting me that i know them and their texting me my name. So im really thinking Its my sis FWB guy so i text saying if you dont leave me alone im telling my sis again! They never text back. Than i said you just told me who u were and they text me back saying i don't care who you tell! So i said i told her and im sending these texts to the police and he never text me back. My question is should i tell my sister that he wont leave me the hell alone! I dont be around him, i dont call him, i dont like him period! But i dont know if i should say something? I mean he didn't tell me it was him but what if my gut is right? I dont like this guy texting me and thinking im going to sleep with him. Thats sooooo darn nasty!!!!! What should i do? Hide it from my sister? Show her the texts? This sucks because i dont want her to think im trying to take him away when i dont care nothing about him. Or should i leave it alone?
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2013): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for answering my question aunts :-)
But hes not playing me. I dont think so, i don't know him or have any contact with him. He got my number from my sisters phone. And thats the story. But im telling her when she comes home from work.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (15 May 2013):
 No, don't leave it alone. Tell your sister, show her the texts, tell her frankly that you are not 100 % sure that this person is her FWB, and explain her the reasons and circumstances that made you think it was him. It's a reasonable, legitimate doubt. You give Sis the infos- what she decides to do with them, it's, alas, up to her only.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 May 2013): Tell your sister, stay away from this loser, and just accept whatever she decides to do. But definitely stay away from this creep, hopefully your sister will do the same, but if she doesn't there ain't a thing you could do about it. She might have to learn her lesson the hard way.
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