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writes:My friend that I have known ever since high school has a crush on this guy that he knows, the problem is I feel like he's flirtng with me when we hang out and it seems like he's trying to act like my boyfriend. He's always timimg me, has a fit if I'm not on aim, basically wants to go everywhere with me and keeps trying to have me tell him what's bothering me even when I don't want to talk. He also always tries to pick a fight with me and then tries to make up for it later. He also does other things that make me think this. I get the feeling that people think that we're a couple when they see us together. The problem is I'm not attaracted to him, there's times I wish that we were friends because he can act like a jerk and he's gay so nothing could happen anyways. I also have feelings for someone else who happens to be another friend but am not in a relationship and this person also doesn't know that I like them as more than a friend. I don't know what to do. please help me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2008): it sounds like this guy is just trying to be a good friend considering the fact that he's gay. he could just be saying that he's gay or he could be gay. i'm not really sure why he would be flirting with you if he really was gay. and as for having a fit when you're not on aim, he could just want to talk and is feeling like you're ignoring him. i'm going to assume that he's IMing you and not timeing you because that wouldn't make sense. Tell him that you need some space and some time to think about things. As for the other guy friend, tell him that you have feelings for him- just not in a way that would scare him off. he's not a mind reader. guys don't realize when we're tryingto give them hints. we basically have to spell it out for them.
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