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writes:Hey everyone is this wierd I feel like my best friends boyfriend is interested in me..I don't know if I'm seeing things but the way he behaves towards me..I don't know if I should talk to him and tell him its inapproriate but I'm not sure..you tell me if he is or not..So last night we were ta the club I arrived 10 mins late,when he saw me he was just staring at me throughout,even when my best friend was talkin to him..then after half hour he comes up to me and tell me'hey your the most beautiful girl out here tonight'..and I just said thanks..later on the dance floor I was dancing with my friend and he and my best friend were dancing next,he had a drink in his hand which he 'ACCIDentaly'poured on me,(it dint seem like an accident)anywys I went to the washroom he came after me and he's like I am so sorry for ruining ur dress I said its fine,so he was like let me help..I was like its ok..and then when we were walking out he was walking next to me and he said'I bet every guy In this room envys me cuz I'm with you'..I don't know am I seeing too much into this?or should I just let it go
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reader, 1busybee  +, writes (22 September 2012):
You need to figure out if he is making comments about you or simply at you to unnerve you. Stop his behavior when he does this and ask him directly, "what exactly are you driving at?" perhaps I'm confused but it sure sounds like you are. Put the burden of proof on him to explain his position to you. If he says no respect that and ask him to be careful that he is making you uncomfortable with those comments and that you value the friendship. If he tells you he is coming on to you then he need to break it off with his girlfriend who you then drop as a friend to be together with him, good luck.
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (20 September 2012):
 well maybe he's just trying to be nice or be friendly or make you feel good.
best thing do to is ASK him what's up
and if he says he's interested then I would talk to my girl friend cause he's a rat and she should know.
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