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I think I've fallen for another girl...any advice?

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Question - (11 July 2009) 4 Answers - (Newest, 11 July 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 30-35, *ordzz writes:

Hi everyone,

Basically Ive been chatting to a girl who I think i may have feelings for, now i do have a girlfriend of ten months but im not sure how i feel about her. The girl (not my gf) recently added me on facebook and i think has seen a picture of me and my g/f and my relationship status, now i had/have no intention of cheating, i will explain all this to my g/f soon but now i feel really confused as i dont think i have feelings for my girlfriend as much as i used to but at the same time the girl who i like is ignoring me I reckon, wont return calls etc. This has happened for 2 days now, the question is then how do i approach the situation regarding the girl i like? Im thinking of texting her explaining the situation etc. I do really want to at least explain myself 1st and try to see if she's alright. Secondly though, I'm not sure if its just lust as we've been on webcam where one thing led to another if you get where this is going but I feel now that she could be ignoring me, I want her more :S

Thanks for any advice offered.

Jordan.

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A female reader, Ash.D United States +, writes (11 July 2009):

Ash.D agony auntWell, first you need to be true to your gf she hasnt done anything wrong and she needs the truth, and you havent even really mt this girl and unless you plan on doing that you might as well let her go and forget about a relatonship because it wont work. but as i said talk to your girlfriend about your feelings and that you've been having feelings for other girls maybe you can work it out, but she might just end it there so it must not be meant to be, Good luck with everything and i hope you use my advise

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009):

listen i think that if you like both girls then don't let anybody tell you what to do just follow your heart.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009):

listen i think that if you like both girls then don't let anybody tell you what to do just follow your heart.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2009):

UGH! i have this problem alll the time

what i've learned is basically you don't know what you have untill its gone.

now i'm not sure if you love yr gf or not but i loved my ex of 11 months and left him for a guy that i only liked because he was majorly hott and older and popular and all that and he said he loved me

but anywho.. try to stick with your girl.

explain to her whats going on and ask to spice up the relationship tell her you wanna make it work ( if you do )

and shame on you for web camming the other girl. imagine how you'd feel if you found out that she was doing that with some other guy.

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