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I think I'm falling for my ex's best mate!!!

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Question - (8 March 2007) 4 Answers - (Newest, 8 March 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

i need some advice i think im falling for my exs best mate and i dont know what to do even before i got with ma ex also ma lil boys dad i knew there was some kinda feelings i had for jay, rob only became mates with jay bout 6months after we got together, me n rob split when our lil boy was 13week old,things just wasnt working he doesnt have owt to do wi our child, but am confused everytime i see jay he blows me kisses if im waiting to cross the road he stops to let me across he always beeps the horn if i dnt see him and since i moved to ma new place he seems to b down at his m8s all the time, i go to ma sis house an he visits nxt door to her maybe its just me i dunno but the more i see him the more am realizing that i like him more help

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A female reader, userid United States +, writes (8 March 2007):

userid agony auntI think this has happened to the best of us. You are currently not seeing anyone, correct? There is nothing wrong with your feelings for him then. Have a sit down with Jay. Ask him what his intentions are...and as the previous response has said, make sure he is not playing games.

Good luck:)

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A female reader, nicola79 United Kingdom +, writes (8 March 2007):

nicola79 agony auntThen you must talk to him sweety, ask him if he has any feelings for you and tell him how you feel.

Just say you dont want to be messed around as you have a child and dont want him getting hurt.

If you dont want to say anything to him like that,then ask if he would like to go for a drink with you and see how it goes from there.

I hope you get what you want flower. xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

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A female reader, luvme247 United States +, writes (8 March 2007):

luvme247 agony auntYou are going to have to write this in english or spell correctly. I can't understand what you are saying at all.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2007):

If you feel that your ex would be hurt, you could discuss it with him first. If not, what are you waiting for, life is too short to wait around and think about 'What if?'

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