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writes:I recently posted a question about me dating a woman 28 years older than me.We've been together for 6 weeks and at first we were all cuddly and mad about each other but now it seems like she's gone off me and just wants me for my money. When we first got together she told me she wasn't sex mad and I was ok with that, until recently we used to make love at least once a week, but whenever we did do it, it was always me that had to start it. Some mornings she would masturbate me if she didn't want sex but now she won't even touch me, even though I used to go down on her and play with her and now she won't let me touch her.Another thing that's started to annoy me is the fact that she chats to guys online while I'm sat there with her and I think it's rude, she says she's known these guys for years, one of them is her ex and something else that I don't like is that she does dirty phone calls for money which I said I wasn't happy with, she's willing to talk dirty to a stranger but she won't talk dirty to me!And then there's the fact that she's good mates with my mum who is always at my gfs when im there and tries to tell us how to do things, it's like there's too many people in the relationship.I don't know how to talk to her about all the stuff that's bothering me because I don't want to hurt her or upset her because I still have feelings for her and I don't want to get on the wrong side of her brothers either!
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (7 April 2012):
 thanks for the update OP.... i know this is a rough time for you but I think it's a good move on your part
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reader, ian84 +, writes (7 April 2012):
ian84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks to all that posted, just to update everyone I ended it. We're both upset but it's for the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2012): What does she gain from having you around?
What do you gain from being with her?
Why do you want to stay in a relationship when a woman old enough to be your mother makes YOU feel insecure?
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reader, ian84 +, writes (24 March 2012):
ian84 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI sat down and talked to her & told her what I thought & she said i'm been silly, & she says she hasn't hugged me as much because i've had a cold & she didn't want to catch it, but things went cold way before I got ill.
And I wonder why she wants me to phone her every time before I go to see her to let her know i'm on my way, is there something going on or am I just being stupid, i've been cheated on before I scared of it happening again.
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reader, Sageoldguy1465 +, writes (21 March 2012):
 Being a cub can be a pain in the a*s if your cougar is not very cognizant of your needs....
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (21 March 2012):
I agree that since she is not caring about YOUR feelings you don't need to care about hers... she appears to not care about you all that much anyway...
just tell her that it's not working out and that you are sorry but you need to move on.
My goodness it's only been 6 weeks...
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2012): I think you should end it and I cannot see how you will hurt her feelings, she does not appear to have any.
Don't worry about her brothers, they probably wonder why your with her too. Its your life that your wasting with the wrong woman
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