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writes: My boyfriend and I rushed into things kind of quick. I'm only 16 and so is he. I was just wondering if sex really does ruin a relationship. I hope not because he is one of the very few nice ones out there that won't cheat or lie or anything. We only have sex once in awhile but we rushed it really quick. Do you think it will ruin it if we just take it slow and only do it once in a great while? because i heard people also lasted forever when they rushed but alot say sex ruins it. Thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, singlemomof1 +, writes (23 July 2006):
 What ruins a relationship is miscommunication or none at all. My best friend had sex on her first date and is now happily married with a child on the way. Those 2 were meant for each other. Sex should never determine the outcome of a relationship but should play a role in having a happy and healthy relationship
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reader, mjmoonwalker89 +, writes (23 July 2006):
 it depends on what kind of person you are to be honest. sex doesnt mean to be the end of a relationship, if thought of in the right way it can strengthen the relationship. just be careful that protection is used obviously and that you continue to be friends as well as lovers. taking it slow isnt going to ruin anything if anything it might make him respect you and also make you enjoy it more ;)
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