A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:I've been dating my boyfriend for a few months now! i have asked him from the start if he was married he has repeatedly denied that he was! the other day another woman sent me a pic of him and his so called wife. When i asked he said it was his ex. but since that day he has had very little contact with me. so should i let things go and see what he has to say or should i confront him again and demand an answer?
View related questions:
his ex Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2012): you should just break up with him, no confrontation necessary, it's already pretty clear.
A
female
reader, Ciar  + ♥, writes (19 March 2012):
 I think your trust has been misplaced. Another woman tells you he is married, you confront him and he withdraws. That sounds a bit suspicious to me.
...............................
A
female
reader, Blonde68  +, writes (19 March 2012):
Well having read your post and your follow ups, if you trust him, then why don't you confront the woman who keeps sending the emails and photos?
He may be right, she could be an ex who just won't let go.
This isn't normally my style, however, Call both hers and his bluff and suggest that you meet up, and tell him to go with you. You will find out one way or another then. He will either go quiet on you or confess all, or she will back off completely.
...............................
A
female
reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (19 March 2012):
If you feel a need to confront him over some pictures, you don't trust him.
And I will agree, the gut instinct is usually right.
Who was the woman who sent those picture btw?
...............................
A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 March 2012):
 IF you don't distrust him then why do the emails and the photos bother you... just block the sender.
I think you don't believe him. I think you don't trust him.
otherwise this would be a non-issue.
...............................
A
female
reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (19 March 2012):
Why did you/do you suspect he is married?
usually our guts are right you know....
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (19 March 2012): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI don't distrust him, but i am tired of the emails and the photos! And if I didn't trust him I would have done a background check when all of this started! i do feel that if I'm honest with him, should be honest with me!
...............................
A
female
reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (19 March 2012):
Honestly, if you know his age and his full name/State it would be easier to do one of those $6.99 or $9.99 background checks.
I think it's bad if you are so distrustful of this guy yet still dating him.
...............................
|
