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30-35,
*mily Ophelia
writes:Hey to all of the wonderful people out there trying to help!Sooo... Maybe some of you read the question I posted almost a year ago about falling for a student two semesters below me. This haven't changed.We're friends now, I know quite a few of his friends, he knows mine. The first time we hung out and I brought a guy friend with me, he seemed not so pleased and when my friend left the guy, let's call him J, came directly to me and asked me how long I knew that friend etc etc. That evening, he also kinda took my hand for a moment; short one but still.Then we met a three parties (the fourth he told me, he and his friends left early because they saw I wasn't there) and we both had a little too much to drink. Nothing drastic happened, not even kissing; however we ended up talking a bit, no, actually a lot, hugging rather randomly and he once asked me, if I wanted to hold hands. Which we did for a moment. In addition, he once told me I had a cute smile and that I was far from boring. All sounding sort of promising? Yeah, think so too. Just, we both seem super shy. Last week we saw each other everyday, at uni and once meeting because he wanted to borrow me a bat for sports and I ended up hanging out with him all evening. Again, nothing happened.However, this past week he made me promise I'd buy tickets for the university-cinema so we (with friends) could watch a special feature together, he also told me he liked my jumper and complimented me on my blouse, telling me it is rather unusual to see me dressed so "serious" but in a good way. Still sounding good? Yeah, to me too. The top of the iceberg is that we both enjoy playing badminton and we actually both play at uni sports, just not the same day. He even told me that we should play some day. But, stupid as I am, I didn't really say anything about that.So... my question, not very original, should I go for it and just freaking open my mouth and tell him or try something less... potentially-awkward and friendship-destroying?Hope you can help and / or give some advice. Well, any advice! Thanks =)
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reader, Plumb  +, writes (29 November 2012):
 Go for it, I don't think it will ruin your friendship with him. He might feel the exact same way.
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