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writes: I dated this guy back in feb. but then ended it shortly after because I wasn't ready to date him or anyone since I just broke up with my boyfriend. He flipped out and called me over and over, which scared me. But we recently started talking again, he told me he's dating someone, and I'm starting to have feelings for him again. I'm too afraid to ask if he feels the same, even though I think he does, so what do I do?
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reader, helpful girl  +, writes (6 October 2006):
 well you could try being pateint and instead of makeing enemys by telling him and him stop dateing this girl which will make this girl your enemy be pateint and wait untill they stop dateing which if he does have feelings for you it wont be that long untill they stop dateing. by not telling him you will save your self from becomeing an enemy. but when they do call it quites get straight int here and ask if hes ok about him and the other girl splitting up he may reply oh ye she wernt much any way, then you have the perfect time to tell him that you have feelings for him. Or if he does have feelings for you he may tell you alot sooner than the time they stop dateing.
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reader, PaperHeartS +, writes (6 October 2006):
I think you should respect his new relationship and certainly do not engage in any flirting etc if you hope to be able to continue a friendship with him if he is not interested in getting back together with you. But I do think if you do have feelings for him you need to let him know this, then it will be upto him to make a decision, it is not fair on either of you to ignore your feelings, he needs to know and you never know he may feel the same and it could be the best thing you ever do? Also in my experience friendships with ex's are allways difficult and if you do truely have these feelings then they will affect your friendship and so it is best he knows know rather than later.
Hope that is of some help to you, Good luck.
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