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age
51-59,
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writes:Hi - my ex girlfriend and I broke up 8 months ago. Things had not being going well for a few weeks and we seemed to be always fighting over petty things and taking each other for granted. We once had a truly great relationship. We met up occassionally in April - June and had some good times and a friends with benefits relationship. However she didn't want us to together again at that time. She said she didn't know what she wanted and that she wanted to be single for a while. She admitted she was being selfish by still contacting me as it was stopping me moving on. Since then we have had no contact. I am now in new relationship of 2 months with a lovely girl and things with her are great. However more and more recently my ex is in my thoughts and I seem more and more drawn back to making contact with her as deep down I still truly love her and think we could resurrect things to how they once were. I don't know how my ex feels about me now or whether she is in a new relationship and I don't want to hurt my current girlfriend either. What should I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): Well, if you don't contact your ex you will never know. At least if you do get in touch you can find out what her situation is, whether she's in a relationship or maybe still has feelings for you. Either way it will put your mind at rest and then you will be able to move on. However, it wouldn't be good to continue seeing your new girlfriend if you do get back with your ex.
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