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writes:I am in love with the girl who followed muslium religion.I am orthodox and my family didn't accecpt me. What shall I do we both promised to live together but the religion issue creat problems.Can any body give our best solution? please help our Reply to this Question
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reader, Victory'' +, writes (15 November 2007):
Victory'' is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thankyou all three who helped me considering my issue as yours.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2007): hey,i think if you love each other you can do it!it would be sooo hard and soo complicated! but if you love each other and willing to take the risk then do it!and to tell you about my experience, i have done it before and don't regret doing it again!good luck.
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reader, SeanJohn  +, writes (14 November 2007):
 Hey Vic,
You two really are the Romeo & Juliet of your times :)
Your situation is very common in today's multicultural world.
How long have you known each other? In the beginning it is easy to mistake infatuation for love. What adds to the sense of love is the fear of opposition. Give it a few months. Go out together. The best way to know each other is to give yourselves time.
Go with your heart. But understand a few things as well.
Do either of you intend to convert to the other's religion before/after marriage?
How about children? What religion would the children grow up as?
How comfortable are you both embracing each other's belief systems? Celebrating Christmas and Eid together?
End of the day, what matters is how much you love each other and if you are willing to work out your differences and not fight about them!!
But it will not be easy. The first 3 years of newly marrieds are very tough and take patience and love to get thru.
The honeymoon phase is over soon when the day to day reality strikes you?
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