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writes:hey guys, i was hoping you could help me out! I've been in a relationship with a boy for three weeks, and he broke up with me last night because he said "i found another girl and i want to save you the pain," but then he told my new boyfriend that someone pressured him into splitting with me. My new boyfriend is getting mad at him because he keeps writing on my Facebook wall that he misses me a lot an regrets ending it with me. I still really love him but I also love my new bf...what should I do? The other part of the issue though, is that he said he really did find a new girl and that he likes her but he still loves me. I am so confused!
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reader, dirtball +, writes (17 August 2010):
 You "really love him" after three weeks huh? You have no clue what love is. That's not meant to be mean either. If you really did, you wouldn't have had a new BF the day you broke up. You are confusing infatuation with love.
If guy 1 has a new GF, then he should be with her. If he still has feelings for you, then it isn't fair to her and he should end it. Your new BF is right to not like the behavior of guy 1. He's trying to steal you away even though he broke up with you and has a GF of his own.
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reader, Baronjohn  +, writes (17 August 2010):
he tries to confuse you so whenever he wants you back(when his gd dumps him)you will be available
dont fall for what he says its all lies
he just wants a back up lover thats all
i know its hard but dont think about him
spend some good quility time with your new boyfriend
PS your new BF really loves you if he didnt he wouldnt get mad all the time he wouldnt care at all so go for it and cut all the connections with your ex
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